Rather, he must be hospitable, one who loves what is good, who is self-controlled, upright, holy and disciplined.  Titus 1:8 (NIV)

God’s Word declares the importance of self-control in the life of every believer, but it is often overlooked or misunderstood. Self-control is not handed to us fully developed the moment we are saved. When we receive the gift of salvation through Jesus, the Spirit of God indwells us, but does not control us. We still have choices to make and lives to live. But we also have the grace-driven ability to bring our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors under the lordship of Jesus Christ. The Holy Spirit produces in us the desire and the ability to govern ourselves and to free us from habits and conduct that are not pleasing to God. When old behaviors rear their ugly heads, we can respond to the quickening of the Spirit by saying “no” to temper, appetite, bad choices, and wrong priorities. We can refuse to let feelings and desires to rule us. Then, each time you restrain yourself, stop and thank God for His overcoming power within you. Every time. Because as you thank Him for loving you enough to change you, the next time is a little easier, and the victory over the old self brings you closer to the person He created you to be.

Dear Heavenly Father, 

I see so many ways that You have changed me over the years I have walked with You. I know this journey is Yours and mine together, and I am so grateful that You have stayed by me through every moment. I pray that You will continue to work in me as I yield to You, until the glorious day when I see You face-to-face.

I love You, Lord.

Amen